Marriage Issues

Marriage it self a critical issues.

A man was walking in the street when he heard a voice. "Stop! Stand still! If you take one more step, a brick will fall down on your head and kill you." The man stopped and a big brick fell right in front of him. The man was astonished.

He went on, and after awhile he was going to cross the road. Once again the voice shouted: "Stop! Stand still! If you take one more step a car will run over you and you will die." The man did as he was instructed, just as a car came careening around the corner, barely missing him.

"Where are you?" the man asked. "Who are you?"

"I am your guardian angel," the voice answered.

"Oh yeah?" the man asked. "And where the hell were you when I got married?"

Mr, admin tell me plz
what else can i write here in "Social, Family and Marriage Issues" .?

This forum is delegate to all certen issues those belongs to this forum you can talk, But be in manner

salam
ajj kal shadi aik boht important issue ha insan ki zindagi ka daaro madar shdi pe hi hota ha aik kmiab insan ki life me musbat asrat muratab krty hein jbky is k baraks nqam shadii insan ki life tabh kr dety he parents ko chhiya k wo apny bacho ki razmandi zaroor lein aur waqt se phly bhi in ko force na karein studies zaroor krni shahiya

I am agree with you Sis-Zainab

zainab wrote:salam
ajj kal shadi aik boht important issue ha insan ki zindagi ka daaro madar shdi pe hi hota ha aik kmiab insan ki life me musbat asrat muratab krty hein jbky is k baraks nqam shadii insan ki life tabh kr dety he parents ko chhiya k wo apny bacho ki razmandi zaroor lein aur waqt se phly bhi in ko force na karein studies zaroor krni shahiya

Shadi tu AZAL say hi aik important issue raha hai.
Kehtye hain harr shareef admi "shadi" ko apni zindage ka ALAM-NAAK saneha bata ta hai.
jiss tarha MOUT ke mukhtalif iqsaam hain, issi tarha shadi ke bhi bohat si iqsaam hain.
jiss tarha KUD KUSHI insan DANASTAN karta hai, iss tarha SHADI bhi DANASTAN kar sakta hai , iss tarha ke shadi ko love marriage kaha jata hai.

issi tarha arrange marriage "QATAL" or Marriage in family presure "Behemana QATAL ke Ziman mey ati hai.

Mout or shadi mey qadrye cheezine mushtarak hai, dono ke baad admi apni personal life say hanth dho bethTa hai.

shadi ke bad aksar MARD zahraat sakoon ke 2 PAAL ko tarastye hain, kehtye hain "Neil Armstrong" or "Columbus" bhi apni baigmat say bohat tang thay, or un say panah hasil karnye ke liye unho nay SAFAR kia or "Neil Armstrong" ko CHAND pe ja ke sakoon mila, or Columbus nay "America" Daryaaft kia.

Umeed hai aap sab khariyat say hoon gay! mere khayal say yeh forum humhe ikhali or zehni sahlayaton ko oujagar karne mein madar dar ho sakta hai. jaise kay familes issus ko dar-e-adab mein reh kar solve karna, shaadi say pehlay larka karki ki kin khubiyon ko jaanc sakta hai or is hi tarha larki bhi.

Mera sawal yeh hai kay mujhe shaadi say pehlay kin kin cheezon ko marood-e-khatir rakha chahiye?? Gharelu maslahil, Malli duswariyen, Taleemi sakat or sab say bari baat yeh kay as a male mujhe apni honay wali soja mein kin khoobon ko talash karna chahiye.?? kindly islam ki roh say jawab dayen kay islam is hawalay say kya hukm dayta hai.

Main aap sab bhaion or behnon kay jawab ka muntazir hoon

Ma'salam

Walikum Asalam Raza bhai,

Hum koshish karine gay app ke sawalat ka jawab denye ke, Jahan tak meri NAQIS aqal sath de.

Q: Mera sawal yeh hai kay mujhe shaadi say pehlay kin kin cheezon ko marood-e-khatir rakha chahiye??

Mera khayal hain shadi say pehlay app ko apnye ander koch khoobiyan paida karna parine ge. app ko khoob larki millye, magar app mey bhi koch khobiyan hona zaroori hain.
App ko apni life mey Management paida karna ho ge, app kiss tarha cheezon ko mamlat ko, halat ko manage karine. app ke ander Atimad hona zaroori hai, app khud qabil-e-bharoosa shaksiyat hon, or app doosro ke oper bhi bharoosa karnye ke salahiyat rakhtye ho. app ke ander Tolerance bhi hona zarori hai, dunia mey koie bhi insan 100% nahi hai, saab mey koch na koch KHAMI ya kamzoori hoti hai. app ke ander bardasht ke ikhlaqi juraat honi chahiye.

Or jahan tak mali dushwariyo, taleem ka mamla hai, mey samjhta hon ke ye tamam mamlat shadi ke bad ehsan tareqay say anjam pa saktye hain.

Allah pe bharoosa hona chahiye, Rizk allah deta hai.

Mey ye samjhta hon ke app agar Baligh hain, or itni mali istetat rakhtye hain ke apni or apni bv ka kharcha poora kar sakine kisi say mangnye ke zaroorat na parye tu app shadi kar hi daline.

in short: islami lehaz say shadi karna bohat asan hai, or shadi ke bad bhi app ke zindage mey saholat hai, magar masherti lehaz say shadi aik bohat bara event hai, iss ko sooch samjh ke karine

Salam,
Is shaadi daftar ka iftitah kab hua .. mujhay kisi nay bataya nahi :p

Yahan tu bohat dino say SARGAR-MIYAN jari hain,
app hi ayee or shirkat karine.
zaroori nahi app shadi shuda ho, nay dosrye logo ke tajarbye ko dekh ke jo nasehat hasil ke ho, uss say hum ko bhi faiz-yab kaine

Wa'salam!

Friends this forum is not for make fun. kindly ready the instruction and then post your comments. and i hope the place of masoom forum is always promoting the real and useful suggestion. So be careful friends.

Yahan par to sab naseehatein be-asar hain kyunke yeh tajarba zindagi ki laboratory ka wo tajarba hai jo har shakhs khud apnay tor pa karna chahta hai ..

Waisay yahan yeh amar bhi qabil-e-behas ho sakta hai kay humaray qibla o mohtaram baani-e-forum nay ab tak khud is silsilay mein kitnay tajarbay farmaye hain .. lagta hai kuch zyada hi farma liye jabhi to muashray ki is dukhti rag pay hath rakh baithay .......... behrhaal... khuda unhein is tajarbay mein kamyabi ata farmaye ..



NASEEHAT BE-ASAR HAI GAR NA HO DARD,
YEH GUR NASEH KO BATLANA PAREGA .... :P

AMeen..suma Ameen.

Mey is silsilye mey koch kahnye say ijtenab karon ga. pehlay hi kafi DANT kha le hai admin sahib say.

Lazim hai dill ke sath rahye pasban-e-aqal
lakin kabhi kabhi issye tanha bhi chor daine

Those people who realized that the every place is for experiment, so it's 100% truth all are manful person.

ASAD bhai, App Bani-e-forum ke liye bohat dua go hain, masha allah.
allah app ke bhi toufiqat mey ezafa karye.

waisay humm app say bohat mazrat khuwa hain, ke hum nay chupke chupke ye daftar khool liya or app ko khaber bhi na ke.
Jab ke ye daftar app hi jeesay preshan logo ke liye hi tu khoola gaya hai. jahan app ko Muft services provide ke jaye ge.

Waisay app ney apni lebortory mey tajarba ke kitni mashqine kee hain, or kia Nataiej niklye tajarbo ke?
App apnye tajarbat say hum ko zaroor AGHA karye ga, kehtye hain AQALMAND admi doosro ke tajarbo say hi nasehat leta hai.

Dear respected friends: kindly take a long dissection be in manner and it's a humble request to both of, don't point out others humanity it's your kinds

Admin i am agree with you but the problem is that how you can stop all these stupid peoples those just come here for the perpose of pointing thay have nothing for disscus excepted this; well we should needed unite and try to disscus on a current issus for findout his soluction and help others those realy needee the soluction

Ali bro ghuas karne say kya faida??? mein or aap jis tarha yahaan seekhne atay hain is hi tarha yeh bhi aaye hain ho jati hai kabhi kabhi misunderstanding so plz ignor

Im Sorry brothers and sisters, I realized my mistake, so I apologies with all of you.
Now, im expecting some serious discussion here.

My question is: Why SHADI is so expensive here in Pakistan? And what about the all ceremonies like MEHENDI, MAYON, is it necessary?